Reality

We have a very poor relationship with reality. Most of the time we think we are present in reality, we are actually living in the past or the future as a function of the past. We are never in the now. And this causes your identity to screw-up everything for you.

What I saw in the Forum Leader was that he has an amazing relationship with reality. He is able to control when to go into the past and when to be in the present. Hence, he is able to understand almost anything anyone has to say. I found myself sometimes interpreting what someone just said in my own way, but the Forum Leader got it exactly as meant, almost every time. Other times, nobody got anything.