Here's what it does not mean:
- Accepting that someone was right in the past and you were wrong, even if you still don't feel that way. Nope that is not it!
- Telling the person that you always thought him to be stupid/ bad/ whatever. Not necessarily.
Completion is all about letting go of the past. It is about re-joining the bonds you broke because something happened. I don't need to complete with George Bush, even though I feel he was wrong. That is because there is no bond between us. But I would complete with someone I only briefly met, because in that moment I felt a bond with him/ her. Completion is about re-establishing that bond. It is about brining the possibility that relationship offers, back in life.
After the completion, your relationship with someone should be extraordinary. No taints of the past. If you are in that space with someone, then you are complete with him or her.
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