My problem in life

Going back a bit, I remembered today morning that the Forum Leader told the guests on the Tuesday evening that whatever is the reason you don't want to do the Landmark Forum for, that is the reason that stops you in life. My reason was that it is a loser-ish thing and I don't need it, because I am not a loser. The exact reason why I have stopped myself in life at so many places. Works wonderfully, doesn't it?

The thing is, you probably won't admit the reason to yourself. Or, you would come up with at least a couple of more reasons to support your reason. Reasons that will be acceptable to the majority of the society and make sense to you. But the real reason is actually just one. It is difficult to find out this reason. Just requires a bit of thinking on your part.